Happy Birthday to you, happy Birthday to you, happy birthday dear...oh wait!
A nice day today, sun was shinning and it was warm. Unexpected actually, I thought it would be colder, just like yesterday. Hello Dutch summer! There are some nice warm days ahead of us, so it's all good. I have a tiny bit of a cold, but I guess it will be a short cold, cause of the sunny weather. This morning I had a dentist appointment in Nijverdal, I went early so I was nice on time in Nijverdal. Infact a bit to early, so I went for a bit of shopping. I had the idea to buy a phone, I still had 20 minutes for the appointment so no worries here. I bought the cellphone in the same store where I bought it the last time, I need a cellphone for phoning and texting, and that's all I need. If my money budget was higher I would have bought a better one.
Last time I bought a Nokia, this time I bought a Samsung, it's a nice one and it's handy in use. I think I wont be using it much just like with my last phone, I texted more then phoning. I don't know why, maybe because I suck in phonecall conversations. I should try it more often, I know. But I have a cellphone now and I'm happy with it. The dentist had a little suprise for me today, I thought I had to do two new fillings, then the dentist assistant told me that I needed three new fillings. (ouch) When the dentist looked at my teeth for aa check up he saw that only needed one filling, yay me! When the dentist moved the electric-chair into the right position, I nearly fell out. He needed to drill one of my upper teeth. It hurted a bit when he drilled and the dentist asked right away if I needed a injection for the pain. "I'm good," I said.
The drilling didn't take that long, and the injection would have cost me more money. Dentists are such a money takers sometimes, sigh! After the drilling he removed some calculus, ouch!! I so dislike taking away calculus, oh that the sound of the drill, the hurting and the amount of water what comes out of that drill, ouch, gulp, ouch, gulp, I swallowed like a maniac and was in pain. But okay the appointment was done in twenty minutes, and the new dentist assistant looked good, oops! I mean was nice. The next appointment is in November, that will give my teeth a long rest till then, and my wallet aswell. I wrote yesterday about my dentist asurance, that I considered to go a package higher, I will have to pay fifteen Euro's more then, but I will have a 100% compensation instead of 75% compensation what I have now. But, why would I pay fifteen Euro more now? My next dentist appointment is in November, that's four months later.
I would pay then fifteen Euro's for four months for nothing. I can always consider the 100% compensation package later in November. I was glad that I was done with the dentist and was about to walk back to the trainstation, but I thought, "Why not go to my Dad? It's been a while." Yeah, I thought, why not? And there I went, when I arrived Dad was sitting outside with some other elder people. Dad gave me his famous 'Yes, knick,' with his head, he always does that. He hasn't seen me in nearly two months, then he gave me that 'knick,' he's shaking his head up and down two times. It made me laugh a bit, like he just see's me every day. Dad looked much older, he's getting bald and the hairs he still has are grey and white. Bless him, I talked a bit with him, we don't need much words to each other. I'm so like my Dad, two top communicators LOL!
I love my Dad, it was nice sitting with him and seeing him again. I left him when I sat with him for thirthy minutes, it's enough, his table for his lunch was ready aswell so, it was fine. I walked steady towards the trainstation and I was nice on time for my train back. My room was warm from the sun and I made and ated my lunch. Then a knock on the door, who could it be? By the sound of the knock and a peek on the clock it could only be Ricardo, ofcource. I was about to take a nap, but I letted him in, hugged him and told him nicely what my plan was today. First place In need a nap, then later on a bikeride with Ricardo plus some grocery shopping. I told him that I want a nap first cause I had a long morning. Ricardo went, "Uhmm, hmm, well okay, but, can you wake up not earlier?" I told him no, "Come back at 3 '0' clock then wi'll have a bikeride." After refusing a few times he took off with a smile.
Later on we had the bikeride, and it went well, he didn't listen a few times, and I nearly had enough of him and wanted to return. I always think to myself then what to do with him if he doesn't listen for the tenth time. Should I let him be? Or tell him that this was his last bikeride with me? It doesn't help. Sometimes I take him apart to have a little chat with him, chatting about what happened and what I didn't like what he did to me. Sometimes it helps, most of the times not. Ricardo and I went to the grocery store cause I needed a few groceries, Ricardo didn't had money and I told him that I will give him two little bottles of juice. That was alright with him, ofcource when we were at the juice rack he nagged and tried to get some more juice, not even a thank you. I told him "No!" And why I told him no.
Then he gave me a big mouth in the store, I had enough, I payed my grocery and ignored him. He so doesn't like that, after five minutes he was trying to be nice again. I responded short, quiet and wise. I needed that talk with him again, why I didn't like what he did, but his Dad took Ricardo with him cause he had a appointment elsewhere, maybe later a talk. I just had a bit of enough of Ricardo's acting today, but I know aswell within a hour it's all good again, between me and him. I need to change that. Johannus knows when to give me my free time, now it's Ricardo's time to learn that. I really like him but sometimes 'Grrrr,' his Dad needs to teach him manors aswell.
Later on in the evening I checked on Johannus for a little while, his ex is on a short Holiday, and leaves Johannus with the two kids, but for a reason though. Child custody wants to decide what to do with the kids within two weeks. Johannus has the kids now, and his ex is getting the kids next week for a week. Johannus told me this while he was back in the big room (room 23) that room is a family room, it's the room where Johannus and his ex stayed when everything was still good and well. I played a bit with Ricardo but he was naughty and not listening, I tried to talk to him and spoke aswell about what happened in the store this afternoon, but it was no use. He was rude towards me and his Dad, I left the room and I told Ricardo "Your not nice and your being rude that's why I'm leaving."
He replied, "I don't care, I don't have to see you tomorrow and then tomorrow," I told him "Fine." And I said bye to Johannus. Johannus said bye aswell. See you tomorrow Ricardo...
