Saving money for a holiday trip in the summer starts.... Now!

Saving money for a holiday trip in the summer starts.... Now! 

I will be getting more money while the years pass by I guess, I'm still paying cause of the time I spent in Canada. Paying back care-allowance, rent-allowance, taxes, the loan I lent last year for the moving, ect, ect. These payings wont last, after I'm done with the paying my income will grow bit by bit. I don't have to be a millionaire or to be filty rich, when I come around plus with a little extra I will be perfectly fine. I have been saving money for a micro hifi set, and today I planned to buy one, my wallet agreed with it, I need music in my room for sure. It's been quit for such a long time, from August till now without music, I must be have been crazy, lol. I went to the store, it's a nice store, with good prices, it's the same store where I bought my laptop. 

I saw a nice micro set from JVC, I asked a few questions to the seller and decided to buy it. The seller told me that there was none left and that he had to order one. It was fine with me, the seller told me I can pick it up on Tuesday. Perfect! I went aswell to the tax-service, I needed some help with filling in a paper. This paper had to be filled in cause I spent time in Canada, the paper came from the taxes-service. They wanted to know if I had income while I was in Canada, or if I had a company in Canada, worked there, ect, ect. Well, none of that. So, the guy who helped me with the filling in and I were done in ten minutes, there was not much to fill in. Relieved I went to my vollunteers appointment, damn it was cold, and the strong wind made it even colder. 

For sure it froze, atleast three degrees under zero. The vollunteers appoint ment went good, I had a appointment with a lady, she wanted to know more about me, what my wishes were for vollunteers work, what am I looking for in vollunteers work. She had several options for me, but in the weekends it's mostly work for eldery people. Like visiting eldery people or go out with eldery people, I told her that's nice but it's not really what I'm looking for.We both looked further. I would like to find something where I'm surounded by people, something involving with kids has passed my thought too. 

The lady had many options but we both couldn't find something what suits me, she adviced me to brainstorm what I really want. These vollunteers have a site aswell, and on this site I can look trough the several vollunteer jobs. I will have to come back within three weeks, and come up with a few jobs or more information what I would like. The vollunteers company is called 'scoop,' there a nice bunch of people. I'm looking forward to the next appointment. After dinner I had a phone call from my Aunt, she called aswell last night. But I didn't pick up the phone cause I had a busy day yeaterday and all my Aunt does is nag, nag nag, that's a waste of my time and energy. Today I decided to pick up while I was cooking.... 

Nag, nag, nag!

And yeah.... it was in some ways nag, nag, nag. She asked me if I went to my Dad already, I answered her that I went last Saturday. Dad told my Aunt that Sjon didn't come, p.s. Dad usually forget things. My Aunt adviced me (as always) that I should mail her if / when I visit my Dad, okay... that's a bit akward and weird... but okay, it's an idea. She always asks me to mail her when I went to my Dad, sometimes I do that and sometimes I don't. I think it's silly though. Why on earth do I have to inform always my Aunt if I went to my Dad? Does she keep a score or does she keep an eye on me that I really visit my Dad? The conversation went well, only a few things she always mentions is, "You never call or message me, it looks like you you want to forget us, us, your Family and other Family members." 

Or, "Your to much on the computer, if you have time for that, you can go to your Dad aswell." I can go on and on, sometimes she really can put you down. My Aunt and Uncle go every week to my Dad, it's easy for them, they have nothing else to do, there retired and there not even living five minutes away from my Dad. What my Aunt would really like is that I inform her on anything I do, inform her about my work, my income, just anything I'm going trough during the day, why? Perhaps she can gossip it around trough the other Family members, and give it a little twist. My Aunt is someone who knows everything from almost every  Family member, nieces, uncles, nephews, you name it. She's easy to talk to, she can pull words out of you just like that. 

Sometimes My Aunt calls me and it's always the question, "Is she in a good mood, or not?" But she has her good ways too, but sometimer, ugh! You know what's been going trough my mind lately? If my Dad passes away and I'm at the funeral, my Aunt will be there too. She will mostly arrange everything, cause that's her. That's fine with me, but I'm getting nervous how she will act towards me and towards the other Family members about me. Worst scenario: I show up at the funeral and the other Family members will say, "What are you doing here? you hardly have contact with your Dad." <--- this will continue in worser and worser, and in the end I will take off, leaving my Dad's funeral. And all because my Aunt has been gossiping, that's why I see totally no reason to inform her in anything I do.

Yeah, not really a thing to look forward too, I think it's best to just leave her be. I will visit my Dad and have just a jolly good time. I will prolly message my Aunt, telling her in short, I have been to Dad, it was good," the end. And further... Just leaving my Aunt be and prolly the other Family members aswell. Just for the good sake, if I go to my Dad, I'm going there to have a good time between me and my Dad. And not to please my Aunt or others. I love my Dad, that's a thing that my Dad, me and other friends should know. I don't care (anymore) what my other Family members think, according to my Aunt I ussualy  do nothing right in her eyes. I know better... 

I'm happy with what I do and I'm proud of what I have achieved, that's something my Aunt will never understand or don't want to understand.