"What you don't see with your eyes, don't witness with your mouth."
Finally I made the decision to go to the sauna today, it was about time. I have been there five months ago aswell, that was in January. I thought this morning, should I go or not? I even looked online to search for sauna's or spa's in the neighberhood. It's a lot of money, but I remember I said to myself once, "Why should I save my money till I'm old and grey? I live now!" Still I didn't know if I should go or not. It was around 11:30 and I went downstairs to check if someone was making coffee. It was daniel who made the coffee (Daniel is a resident) together with Nicole, she's a staff member. When the coffee was done we took the coffee outside and took a seat in the garden and we chatted. Nicole asked me if I have heard something unusual last night, like a car what drove by and a guy was shouting out of that car. I told her that I heard it yes, and I told her that it wasn't the first time this month.
I knew aswell who the 'shouting' guy was, it was the new boyfriend of Johannus's ex girlfriend. Yesterday it was Johannus's youngest kid birthday, and ofcource the mother was having it hard not seeing the youngest kid, and that made the ex's newest friend mad, and drove by our building a few times and started to shout and trying to create some havoc. It's such a drama, I wish it wouldn't have happened here this seperation. There's to much gossip around here, it's almost insane. It's like breaking up with a huge audience around those two, everyone wants to know what happened and what's going to happen next. The gossip is floating around the building like crazy. Johannus is telling bad things about his ex-girlfriend, and his ex-girlfriend is telling bad things about Johannus. The accuses and treatments are going from left to right.
When they were still together they were popular here, and had alot of friends. But now cause of all the gossip floating around there all vanished, they dislike Johannus or the ex. It's though now for Johannus cause he's still living at Humanitas, and the ex spread alot of gossip about 'him,' but 'he' does the same. Now there is this childish silly situation going on that I or anyone have to be aware who your talking to at Humanitas or who you spend time with. I spend time with Johannus but aswell with his ex when they were still together. Still I spend time with Johannus and alot with Ricardo, But at this time I have to be aware that I don't spend time with them to much, in other words I have to do it sneaky and trying not to be seen. I'm over reacting perhaps and it sounds childish I know, but I have my social life here aswell with other residents and that's going well too. But these other residents see Johannus and his two kids rather go then stay.
At the moment I think some residents dislike it when I spent time with Ricardo, they say, "You don't have to play or spend time with Ricardo, you have a life too," well I know that, but I like him, and he likes me, we do fun stuff and leave the drama stuff out. Anyway, there is something going to happen this week with Johannus and his two kids. There going to move! They found a house near Almelo, it's a small village called 'Vroomshoop.' I'm happy for them, it will be so much better them aswell. I'm crossing my fingers for them, and my too's. Even though I will miss 'them' and ofcource I will miss Ricardo alot more, it's better for everyone. Alright back to the sauna...I went, yes! I was excited but I had a slight moment when I thought, "Think of all that money what I'm going to spend now, look what I can buy for all that money!" Ugh, shut up, and enjoy! LOL!
The weather was nice for the sauna, sunny, nice tempature, not to hot and here and there a grey cloud, perfect! When I arrived in Nijverdal I had to walk a wile, I'm guessing it was a 20 minute walk. I usually go on a Sunday to the sauna, but this time I went on a saturday, just to avoid some people I knew. I didn't wanna bring up all these Canada stories, maybe next time. It was quit busy when I saw the parking lot at the sauna, bussier then normal. When I went in the boss of the sauna knew me right way, and asked me how I was doing. I told him I was alright and told him what I needed, slippers,bathrobe and a towel. I guess I lost that stuff in Canada. The sauna felt good, I had to get used to the heat again. I didn't spent much money there cause of my low budget, but I had a good time. After three hours I was done, took a shower, putted my clothes on payed and took off again.
