A wise lesson...
My visit from my new 'buddy' from Buddy contact was short, and he was late aswell. Though it was a good visit, he (Johan) wanted to know what my week and weekends off looks like, or, how do I fill my week and weekends. Johan wanted to know for example what time I get up and what time I go to bed, and what do I do to fill the days. Well, this is what I told him, (long version) let's start with Monday...
Monday I always get up early, even though I putted my alarm on 5:00, I always automatically wake up at 4:15 or even sooner. It's easy to turn around and sleep another hour before I get up for work, but no, if I would try I won't be able to sleep. So, I get up way to early actually at 4:15 or 4:30 and grab slowly my laptop. It's such a nice way to wake up. Some people might grab the newspaper or perhaps a book, I grab my laptop.
Time flies when your on the net, watching the latest updates from friends on Facebook, read the news and weather forecast. Before I know it it's 6:15 and then it's time to get started to take my medication and prepair breakfast, after my breakfast I do a quick wash up and put my working gear on and grab my jacket and I'm off at 7:00. The ride to work is only a short 20 minutes, I like being on time. Have a little chat in the cantine before I work.
4:30 and the work is done, I cycle home with another fellow worker who lives near. I won't have much time to have a wash up and get clean clothes on, before I go to the 6 'o' clock dinner. 4;45 I'm home, do a quick Facebook look, a quick wash up and clean clothes on and a quick lunch making for tomorrow's work. 5:30 and I'm off for the free dinner. At 7:00 I cycle back home with my full belly. Around 10:00/10:30 I will be in bed.
Tuesday is almost the same as Monday, accept there isn't a free dinner. So, nothing quick and fast then. I take my time and don't even have to prepair dinner, I already had made that last Sunday. I always prepair a huge dinner on Sunday, one for Sunday itself and one for Tuesday. I don't like it that much if I have to make dinner after work, just to tired and exhausted then from work. I can go a bit later to bed on Tuesday's, lol, cause I have the day off Wednesday. Though I won't make it to 12:00, cause I will be sleeping then.
Wednesday is a resting day, though I have plenty of time, this day always flies by. Sleeping out? Hmm, yes and no, I'm always early up. Around 7:00 or even before I will be up doing not much, laptop and naps in the morning. Though there could be that I have appointments then, or that I have to go somewhere because of a mail that hasn't been sorten out. At 4:00 pm I usually take of towards the free dinner, perhaps a little grocery shopping before. The free dinner is at 5:00. I return when my belly is full, mostly around 5:45 pm.
Early night on Wednesday cause work is calling again on Thursday. Same time to bed as Monday's and Sunday's, around 10:10:30. Thursday you can compare with Monday, only the free dinner will be happening right after my work. I cycle from my work right away towards the free dinner, stopping with work at 4:30, the free dinner starts at 5:00. After the free dinner I will be exhausted and ready for my 3 days off. Relaxing evening ahead.
Friday is a grocery day, and aswell a resting day. I might aswell make plans for the upcoming day then, Saturday is perfect for going out, or not. The 3 days off are mostly okay days, trying to filling them, might be going a day out aswell, or visit my Dad. Or even stay at home and do another second round of my grocery list. Sunday is a easy going and relax day, resting, napping, cooking, a nice day to stay at home, resting for the upcoming working day on Monday.
Johan, my new buddy said that I had long days sometimes, for example Tuesday I will be up at 4:15 am and go to bed around 11:00 or 11:30. That's almost more then 19 hours being up, no wonder I'm tired on my days off, Johan told me to try to get out of bit later, later then 4:15. "Up at 6:00 am is much easier for you," he told me, "You will be perfectly on time still." I'm going to try this next week, trying to sleep one hour more. Johan told me another wise thing, he noticed that I was searching for new friends to overwhelming...
In that way I will never find a friend. It was better not to make it a goal to find new friends, it was better to have a 'I'm really okay and fine when I'm going out on my own' feeling. And that's right, I like going out, even on my own. Though I mostly say to myself, "Hey, it would be nice now to have someone with me now I'm out." Johan gave me a few cores to do for up coming days and next week, he wanted me to find something to do on my days off. "You are going to learn first that it's really okay and that you can have a good time...
...when your out or do something," Johan told me. I'm actually looking forward to find something to do, I'm not gonna search for people, I'm gonna search for something to do, something that will enjoy me. I'm starting tomorrow, I will write about it what it was. This Friday has been okay, I'm still having that cold but I went out anyway for a bit. A friend of mine offered me to come with her to a second hand store. First she had to pick up a couch on her way.
It took a while when she arrived at my house, she had someone with her too, I know both of them from Humanitas and the free dinner. It was a bit of a hectic and not that nice out, they were both smoking in the car with the window half open. The cold wind blew many times on my face, not that healthy with my cold me thought, lol. It was a hectic out with many lifting and moving furniture and many cold wind on my face. (Shut the window!!, lol) One friend bought 2 new chairs that had to go to her house, plus the new couch she bought.
The other friend took over the old couch from the other friend, and that couch had to go to her home. I was late with doing my groceries aswell, not really what I had on my mind with going out with a friend. But oh well, next time it will be better, with me not having a cold and then it will be me with only 'that' one friend...
