"And there asking me?" Wow!

"And there asking me?"  Wow!

Again a nice day at work (will it ever change? LOL!) We had a new worker among us, another new commer from Humanitas. He liked to work outside, so that's what he did. Our garden at Reha really needed fixing and cleaning, he did a good job so far. He works half days first, just to see how it goes. It's the normal procedure, I had it too. The work I'm doing is going well, the things I have to make is getting easier and easier, and that's gives a nice feeling. The day was exhausting though, I felt tired and still feel tired. I didn't sleepwell the last few nights, my nose is full of slime from the cold, that gives me a hard time to breath trough the nose.

I use nosespray but it doesn't help that much, but I keep using it though. Perhaps I will look around for something else a bit more cause I need my sleep. After the work I saw Ricardo and his little brother playing in the garden with Johannus's counselor. Ricardo ran to me and hugged me, nice! Although it was nice the hugging, there were being naughty and not listening. Ricardo and his little brother haven been plucking berries from a tree in the garden, and the counselor replied many times not to do that, but naaah, not listening. The counselor was sure not amused, I know the counselor and he's a layed back guy, always calm in his doings and sayings.

I saw the angry look on his face when the kids still plucked the berries, he commanded them but the kids thought he was joking and thought it was a playing game. The counselor told me, "If they were my kids, oh dear!" I heard this saying many times from other residents, You need to be patience with them or get them on there weak spot, (for sure not hitting them ofcource!) Like, "Oh you don't wanna listen? Then your not comming tomorrow," or, "Then your not getting what you asked for today." And let them tell "Sorry," to you. I saw enough of the berries plucking and went to my room, and waited to Ricardo to follow me, but he didn't, the counselor stopped him. Thank god, cause I was tired and sleepy.

And it was nearly time for the meeting, I still had an hour though, so, I decided to have a little rest. After my rest I took a shower and layed down again ,I still had 10 minutes. Just before the meeting Ricardo knocked on my door, he asked me to eat with him and his Father, he missed me, (aaww!) I had to refuse him though cause I wanted to be with the meeting in 5 minutes, I hugged him and talked with him for a while. He didn't like that I go to the meeting, but okay, he will get over it. The meeting started of nice, the staff members commented nicely on my 'Papa Smurf' shirt LOL! First we ated dinner together, goulashsoup/ chickensoup, fruit and bread. Then the meeting started, and it was nice and comfy. Much better then the last meeting we had.

The points we talked about wasn't new in my eyes though, were getting new post/mail boxes, washmachines will be fixed, ofcource the cleaning part came up again, nag, nag, nag, it's always the same, nagging about it but never a solution. I gave up on the nagging, when I see something dirty and it bothers me I will clean it. Ricardo came a few times in the meeting room to see me, he joined us a few times to have some fruit and two times a soup. He was being naughty aswell and not listening. It disturebed a few times the conversations, sigh Ricardo's Dad should have kept a eye on him.

After the meeting Ricardo went on being naughty, and I decided to go to his Dad to take him upstairs. Ricardo ran after me and insulted me a few times, and told me to stop walking. It was his adhd time again, I opened the door and his Dad told Ricardo to stop and gave him some good lesson. Ricardo deserved the shouttings from his Dad, "I will put the little one to bed, and you go right after him," yelled his Dad. After a little while Johannus talked to me about his ex and child custody, it was an important day for him. He told me 'he' will get the kids for now child custody decided. Upcomming Friday Johannus's ex will come to have a look at her kids for two hours, child custody will be there too.

And now this...... Johannus told me that child custody and Humanitas are gonna ask me to to have a chat about Johannus and his ex. I was kinda shocked as you can imagine, I so don't want to stand in between, I asked Johannus why, and what do I have to do there and say. My name has been fallen a few times with conversations between child custody, Johannus, and his ex, only that I spent so now and then time with Ricardo, and because I spent time aswell with Johannus and his ex. This little chat with Child custody and Johannus is NOT that I have to decide what to do with them or that I have to decide where the kids better go too. The chat will be about Johannus and his ex, what do I think of them. Telling my opinion about them. I just don't know.

I thought about it, and I decided to say 'No." Cause I don't want to stand between even if this chat seems so harmless. The kids might go to the Dad or the ex, and then I might be the bad man. Even if this chat isn't  about the decision. Although I have sligty doubts to join the little chat, maybe now I can say that Ricardo is seeing me to much and that he is sometimes to much for me. But naah, I'm not joining, perhaps Humanitas is gonna ask me this week if I want to join them or not, Then I will tell them everything I wanted about Ricardo, positive things and yeah, negative things, Ricardo needs a good place to stay, it's nothing for him to let him stay here. He needs a good inviroment where he can play with kids of his age.