"Made a schedule."

"Made a schedule."

We were suppose to get alot of rain and lots of wind but, it was quit okay. There was place for the sun aswell, that made the day nicer. Again I didn't do much this day, In the morning I took my naps and in the late afternoon I did the last of my grocery and bought a little present for my Dad, cause of tomorrow's Father's day. Ugh! My Aunt insisted that I should buy slippers for him, as I didn't know that, sigh! My Aunt can be helpfull and friendly but sometimes it's the other way around. A few weeks ago she messaged me with a mail, she asked me why I didn't message her, I could be dead she told me, and she wouldn't even know. I just messaged her a few weeks ago, telling her how I was and how she was. Anyway! 

I wrote a little schedule for Ricardo, cause it's getting just to much when he shows up. I know he's going trough alot, but I expect from him to be nicer so now and then towards me, and more thankfull. He got to be aware that I really can't be with him 24 hours a day, I like him, I really do. But enough is enough, he comes sometimes with orders what were going to do when I spent time with him, hello? And If I don't follow these orders he gets mad, I know adhd patients like to have everything in order and having things there way. A good example today was that Ricardo wanted to go for a bikeride at 2:00pm (we both promised each other this yesterday) But things has changed a bit and I had to change the bike riding time from 2:00pm to 2:30pm, his Dad told me that he doesn't like when you change things.

Well sorry, but it is as it is, right? Ricardo was okay with the changed bikeride time after some insults and shoutings. And I must say we had a nice afternoon, we biked quit a while, we got some rain on our heads but that was okay, like Ricardo shoutted, "Were not from sugar!" We went to the canal for a little while and on our way back we drove by a garden center, they had alot of plants and garden stuff, but aswell fishes and other animals. Ricardo loved the fishes, specialy the big koi's. Afterwards we did some grocery and I bought the present for my Dad. Ofcource Ricardo wanted to buy a gift for his Dad aswell, he asked his Dad for money. His Dad asked me to buy some food for him and his two kids, marcaroni and a bottle of ketchup. Ricardo got two Euro to spend for the gift for Dad.

We came home with a little bit of food, one wrong bottle of ketchup and a to expensive gift for Ricardo's Dad. Sigh and LOL! His Dad was mad and I went downstairs after Ricardo blamed me for his mistakes, LOL!  I was used to it and I was fine, I know he will be back after his dinner. I will show him the new schedule when he comes. We have some new residents among us, and they like to cook, specially in the weekends. They always ask me to join them or they ask other residents. I refused a few times, thinking of that I have to do something to for a return. That's fine with me but my budget is very low, and the two new residents (man and wife) have double income. Today they insist that I would join them, so I did. It was nice sitting with each other, some other residents joined us aswell. 

"Maybe we could put every weekend 1 Euro 50 together and cook a meal together", said a resident. That's a good idea. While we had our dinner Ricardo came in the kitchen aswell and I hugged him. Being with many people makes Ricardo nerves then he becomes naughty and wants to tease. I knew it will get outta hand after a while, some residents got annoyed so I brought him upstairs after the dinner. Knowing already that I will be the bad man again, and that Ricardo will insult me on our way didn't do much to me, he's been naughty recently. Almost upstairs he tried to punch me, but I stopped him just in time, "Stop!" I told him and brought him further in his room. I spoke to his Dad for a while and went downstairs, turned on the laptop and made me a nice cuppa tea. 

Another day had ended, I totally forgot to show Ricardo the new schedule, ah! Tomorrow will do too. Here's a little peek.....


R's schedule.


Monday: is a working day for Sjon. No spending time.  (Insert sad face)  *
Tuesday: is a working day for Sjon. No spending time.  (Insert sad face) *
Wednesday: is Sjon's day off. 2 hours I will spend. (Insert happy face) *
Thursday: is a working day for Sjon. No spending time.  (Insert sad face) *
Friday: is Sjon's day off. 2 hours I will spend. (insert happy face)  *
Saturday: Weekend! 2 hours I will spend. (insert happy face) *
Sunday: Weekend! 1 hour I will spend. (Insert happy face) *

* Time is flexible.


Now these hours may look like much but I assure you they are lots less then I spent time with Ricardo in the past. See you tomorrow bloggers and readers, love ya"ll!