A good start...

A good start.

The good news from today is that I had a response back from the eldery place where my Dad lives, I sent a e-mail yesterday to the eldery place cause I would really like a talk with the nurse who takes care of my Dad, or the one who goes about my Dad in that eldery place. I want to be more involved if it comes to my Dad, for example, if he's sick, I would like to know if he needs something or when he's going to be replaced, I would like to know. I want to discus or decide too when it comes to my Dad, for a (to) long time it has been my Aunt who arranged everything or gets the latest news first from my Dad first, I always come second place. The eldery place, my Aunt and I made a agreement about this though before I went to Canada. My Aunt and Uncle make the desicions when it comes to my Dad together with staff from the eoldery place, if there's news my Aunt gets to know it first and then me.

I guess you know by now how my Aunt is, gossiping, nagging and b@llsh!tt!ng. It's never good what I do, and the 'wrong' gossips about me go all to the other family members includding the eldery place. That is gonna stop now, I want to work on this and change all of that. So, I had a e-mail back from my Dad's nurse who arranges everything for my Dad, she knows everything what has been done and what needs to be done if it comes to my Dad, next Friday I will have a talk with her alone. The e-mail back suprised me cause it went so fast, I thought it would be such a struggle to get in contact with my Dad's nurse. I'm excited to go but aswell a bit nervous, prolly my Aunt will come to know this, and I'm a bit nerves cause of what I will get to hear from Dad's nurse. But yeah, I made a start, and I'm proud I did. Tomorrow I will go to my Dad for a visit. 

I hope the weather will be as good as today, today was extremely warm for the time of year. 18 degrees and lots, lots of sunshine. I took my bicycle and went for a long ride, I took some pictures and at last I did my weekly groceries. Before the groceries I went to the children's farm in the city, the animals were out and I took some pictures, always a nice visit. My counselor came aswell today in the morning, I told him about my plan about Dad, and he thought it was a good idea, my counselor knows aswell about my grumpy Aunt. He came with some good ideas aswell, he told me, "Why don't you go for a walk with your Dad tomorrow, grab a wheelchair and go around the block with him," great idea. It's I think easy to get a wheelchair at my Dad's place and yeah, whey not go for a walk. Near my Dad's place is a very nice forest where we can go to. I will see tomorrow...