Tuned her out!

Tuned her out! 

Like I wrote yesterday about my Aunt, that she called again twice, once last week and once yesterday, I didn't answer both times. I didn't feel for arguing or even just talking to her, she probably forgot what has happened the last time when we spoke or write to each other. Or she didn't forgot but just wanted to ignore it and continue with me on her level. Yeah, right! All though it makes me angry or sad, I always try to give it a chance to solve it aswell, just like I tried last night. I wrote her back after she wrote me a email, she was asking me why I won't pick up the phone, and telling me all silly and awkward things about Dad or my Dad's nurse, just to get in touch with me or continue with me. Like nothing has happened. 

Waiting for the train this Sunday, I planned a visit to my Dad.

I explained her again in a email why I wasn't picking up the phone and explained her why I was mad. It was a good email I must say, firm written, clear words and right to the point. I was even friendly with her, trying to somehow stop this argue/fight. But, no, that's impossible with my Aunt. She's just twisted my clear words and gave me her own explanation, giving me the fault. (1) I HAD to message her when I buy something for Dad, (No! Cause that's a thing now between my Dad's nurse and me) She always wants to know 'things' when it comes to me and my Dad. Yes, she really takes care of my Dad, and yes, she arranges most of the things for my Dad, I'm  really thank full for that... 

The colors of the tree's were so nice today...

And I don't want to change that either. Though I don't like the way how she involves me in this process. (2) She told me aswell that it was to easy to talk about what was happened with the bad and insulting mail my Cousin (my Aunts Son) sent me a few months ago.  (Yeah, that mail hurted me, and Aunt just ignored it and accused me of something totally different) (3) She accused me that I didn't know how sick my Uncle was (my Aunt's Husband) while having my Dad's birthday in August, ( I wasn't blind or deaf Aunt, I really could see that my Uncle was sick, you called me a thousand times to make that clear) I replied to her email shortly, explained her again firm and wise, but, no success.

She mailed me once again with her saying, "Thanks for the mail. I never lie,we  think you are weird, and everyone in our Family are thinking the same, you probably don't think so, but it's the true. You live your life as you wish." She sounded childish, even Google translate couldn't make a word of it. I replied one more time back and then I blocked her from my Hot mail. I told her, "About me being weird, the Family has probably heard that from you gossiping THAT  around, without talking to me first, have a nice Sunday." I'm tuning her out. It might worry me a bit in the first place, but I will get over that. Today's Dad's visit was short. Just like I had planned yesterday, today was a visit day to Dad. 

Waiting for the bus towards home...

It was a nice trip, I had to take the train and the bus, cause at some place there weren't riding any trains. I actually was looking forward to this short trip, lol. Train trip and bus trip in one, yay! The weather was gorgeous, sunny weather and not even cold, see the pictures. On my way I bought flowers for Dad, and I had my lunch with me. Dad always has his dinner around 12:00, that's the time I always visit him. So that we can eat and chit chat with each other, aswell 12:00 is a very nice time to avoid my Aunt. When I arrive I always look at the parking lot, to see if my Uncle's car is there. Just to be save, ugh! It was a nice day but aswell a bit of a sad  and awkward day, I need more friend or relatives around me for sure.